How do u keep your anal sphincters still tight if u have anal sex quite often? is similar excersice like for vaginal sphincter... tighten and loosen for 10 minutes everyday helpful??? or is there any other procedures to do????? |
You need to use either a bottle , or, better yet, a baseball bat to exercise your anus, just like women exercise their vagina.
There are exercises for gay men that you can do to develop your anal muscles so you can actively stimulate a penis with your anal muscles - its called anal massage of partners penis. |
How tight should anal sex be? I want to know the truth, when she says I am the first man to touch under her panties ever. well she does have a huge gigantic butt at 18! however..
when we just had anal sex today with my girlfriend, and it was first time for me to do this. and... using lots of delay gel lube, which has strong numbing effect, I could finger with1 and then like 15 seconds after that with 2 and then 3 fingers, and in less than 1 minute from the start my whole whole thing was in there, and I felt it was so loose in her butt that I could add 2 more fingers next to my penis inside of there. And till the end she did not even say a single ouch, even she told me it's not in there! when it reaaaally was! I don't know how numbing gels work, but I'm very concerned of her sincerity. Mine is 5 inches thick.
If anyone had anal before, please tell me should it be so easy to do the first first time ?
By the way, she did not fear it at all, told me to do anal instead of the vaginal, because she wants to remain virgin. it's complicated where I live, here in Iran, many girls do anal at early ages to keep so-called virginity for wedding night. Poor husbands here! Bad news for me, I wanna marry her. |
Anal should be tight and it should hurt!
She may have masturbated in her anus, which could make it looser. Also, all girls are different...sizes lol.
But still, I have had anal about 5 times with my boyfriend and it still hurts! It hurts when he puts just one finger in! |
Anal sex, not as tight after the first time? Ok so me and my fiance had anal sex for the first time and he loved how tight it was....we did it the next day...and it wasnt so tight so he didnt enjoy it as much....will it tighten after a few days? or is that how tight its going to be from now on???
xox All answers are appriciated x |
The sphincter, as well as the vagina, is a muscle. It's tight if it's tense; the more relaxed it is, the less tight. It was probably not as tight the second time because you were less nervous and more relaxed. It probably felt better for you the second time.
It's a muscle... and you have control over it.
So if you want your anus to be tight, flex your muscles. You can pretty much grab your partner's penis as tightly as you want.
What I'm missing in your story is how *you* liked it. I'm hoping you're not just doing this for him! Are you enjoying it at all?
Your finance seems to have an obsession with tightness. Could it be that he is circumcised and his penis is not all that sensitive? Or perhaps he's mainly used to masturbation, and the tight feeling of his own hand.
I hope he'll adjust to having sex with you, and appreciate the finer feelings that it offers, apart from tightness (which generally means that a woman is not ready for sex). |
Too tight for anal sex? Is it possible? I fear I might be... |
| Same answer as your other question P&P :-) |
How do I get my anal hole tight? I am gay and have anal sex with my bf, but now my hole isn't as tight as it was, so I am just wondering if there is a cream out there or something that would make it tighter again? |
| yeah.,stop having sex for a while and bath your anus in salt water ,salt water firms the skin. |
Can you be too tight for anal? I think I might be too tight to have anal sex. Does everyone think that way? |
| Maybe. |
My boyfriend wants to have Anal sex but im too tight..? please dont be offended and report i honestly want advice on how to do it like alot of people do anal sex and my bofriend want us to do it but i swear he cant even get 1 finer in he trys to push a finger in me but it hurts so bad and he cant evn get anymore in, but know i should be able to because ive pooped out pieces that were almost the size of his you know.. so how do you girls get it in? |
Anal is just wrong, what is it with americans and the anus?
If you really must do it the you need to really relax and lube up, a lot |
Is possible to be incapable of having anal sex? me and my boyfriend tried anal sex for the first time and he could get it in. but neither of us felt anything. i think either i clenched to hard/ unrelaxed or his penis is too thick. is there a way to relax my hole or could it just be too tight for good? we took it slow and it still hurt for like days and neither of us found pleasure in it. |
| simple: A. it takes a long time to relax anal muslces. B. use lubricants |
Anal sex -- How to tighten the anal muscles? OK so I'm only 21 and I have been having anal sex since I was about 17. I'm scared because when I get new boyfriends or something they will start thinking i'm "loose" and think i'm a whore or something because it's not as tight as it used to be when I was younger. I've tried waiting to have sex for like 6-8 months and it's still loose. How do I get my anal muscles to tighten up!? |
| once stretched, nothing will really undo it. you can strengthen them, but the sphincter will be what it is. dont worry about it. i dont know any guy that would really notice anything. anyone new will just think that's how you were naturally. |